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Emma honey you are good enough, he wasn't good enough for you or he wouldn't have said he loves you one week then goodbye the next. I had an awful break up in my 20s (we were together several years, engaged, and living with my parents) and it took a long time for me to remember who I was without him and realise I could do better. Do the stuff you enjoyed and he didn't, go to the places he never wanted to visit, eat the stuff he didn't like. Give it time and be kind to yourself.
Emma honey you are good enough, he wasn't good enough for you or he wouldn't have said he loves you one week then goodbye the next. I had an awful break up in my 20s (we were together several years, engaged, and living with my parents) and it took a long time for me to remember who I was without him and realise I could do better. Do the stuff you enjoyed and he didn't, go to the places he never wanted to visit, eat the stuff he didn't like. Give it time and be kind to yourself.
All of these answers are so on point! Dishing the good out once again.