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slop paralysis demon's avatar

If little soft sheep is reading this, did you mean soulmates in a romantic sense, or no? Both answers seemed to assume that but I wasn't necessarily getting that from your question.

Also, it is true that straight people drop off the face of the earth when they get a partner, but so do gay men, lesbians, bisexuals, pansexuals, and all other flavors of the human race. We all know that queer person who's done this right? Or am I in a lez bubble over here?

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Sarah Stoker's avatar

Little soft sheep it's possible this person is your soulmate but it doesn't necessarily mean they are the only piece that fits your puzzle. I'm lucky to have two people in my life who fit with me, sometimes they fit in the same way and sometimes in very different ways (one has never seen Star Wars but the other sends me SW memes in the middle of the night). Don't try to constrain your relationship, go with the flow, and if it is romance you're after you can still explore this in a way that won't fuck up the friendship if you remember why you are friends in the first place.

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